I am so happy to find such a supportive community where I can voice my concerns. I am a mostly straight woman who has only had relationships and sexual relations with men. I have always believed that love is not limited to gender or sexual identity so when I met this amazing man who just happened to previously be a woman everything just felt so natural and organic.
So we have now reached the point in our relationship where things are getting serious sexually and the sex is quite good. I think he has hangups about the fact that I have only been with men and will miss having sex with men. Funny thing is...that is not my issue. I am fully turned on and capable of being satisfied with the situation we have.
Sadly I am afraid that I may not be able to satisfy him very well because I have never done this before. I have become quite good at BJ's with a penis but the vagina is a completely different story. I want to make sure we are both satisfied and I want to bring him as much pleasure as he brings me. How can I learn the valuable skill of cunnilingus? Does anyone have any tips or suggestions for books or videos? I have been reading as much as I can on this but information is limited as he is a transsexual FTM and not a lesbian.
Is there anyone out there who is an FTM or anyone with any knowledge of this who can give me some advice on how to go about this relationship. I really care about him and feel that he may be one of the greatest loves of my life. Any help would be appreciated. Have a great night!