Good morning everyone.
This is my first post so please go easy on me.
I have been married for 3 years to my beautiful wife, and we have an amazing 2 year old son. There is a bit of an age gap between me and my wife (I am 24 and she is 37) but that doesn't bother either of us
The problem I have is that when pregnant, and the time leading up to the past 2 weeks my wife completely lost her mojo and appetite for sex, which I have read about and is the norm. But last night she told me she isn't very good at "relationship sex".
My wife has worked on resorts her whole life, we met at one when I got a job working for her. So she has had a relatively single life and has been able to have fun, but now all of a sudden she is married and has a son, so I can understand what she means. But we are married, this should be the time to be more adventurous but instead she told me that sex is boring and she doesn't want me to last so she can get it over with. She says she still enjoys it, but the routine is always the same. She won't touch me during the build up to sex and when we get round to making love it is always me on top. Always. It's starting to make me not want to have sex anymore, even more so now I know she doesn't enjoy it.
How do I fix this? Do I need to give it time to let my wife become more adventurous or do I need to say anything?
I'd appreciate anyone's view on this. Thank you in advance.